There’s a particular kind of ache that can creep in when it feels like everyone else has found someone to spend their life with. Another engagement post on social media. Another well-meaning “So... anyone special in your life?” at a family gathering. Another event where you show up solo and leave wondering if something’s missing. If you're a single Christian navigating a world that often equates worth with being coupled up, here's what you need to hear first: Your life is not

Can I be honest with you? I've sat in a room full of people at church and felt completely alone. I've scrolled through social media seeing everyone else's friend groups and wondered what was wrong with me. I've wanted to reach out to someone but talked myself out of it, convinced they were too busy or wouldn't want to hear from me. If any of that sounds familiar, you're not alone. In fact, that's the irony we're all living in right now. We're more "connected" than any generat